There’s History In Those Love Letters Part II

I wrote a previous post about my Grandparents and shared a love letter my Grandpa sent my Grandma. I have another one to share with you today.

My maternal grandparents started courting in 1936 when my Grandma was 17 and still in high school. My Grandpa was 23 and had a teaching job in a one room school house a few towns away from where my Grandma was living.

My Grandpa in his school room in 1937

My Grandpa in his school room in 1937

Even though this is when they started dating they knew each other since they were children because they grew up in neighboring farm houses. My Great Grandma never liked my Grandpa but I don’t know why.

My Grandpa’s Mom, Alice passed away on January 9th, 1936 leaving her husband, my Grandpa and a young daughter Bonnie to live at the farm on their own.

Even though I don’t know for sure, I would think all of these circumstances play a part in my Grandpa’s following letter to my Grandma. I mentioned in my last post that my Grandparents did not express their love outwardly but this letter truly proves that my Grandpa was a very sensitive, emotional man and loved my Grandma very much.

My Grandma Charlotte's Senior Picture

My Grandma Charlotte’s Senior Picture

March 17, 1936

Dearest Charlotte,

Well I hope you are not disappointed in finding this letter is from me instead of some other guy.

I got home o.k. last night, but I had to get up and get breakfast. Ruby and Art didn’t come back last night. Bonnie and Dad were back sick this morning. And I felt so darn blue I cried all the way to school.

It is noon now and have I felt mean this forenoon. I bet the kids think I am terrible. They have all gone out of the school house; because they are afraid of me I suppose. I wish you were down here; I would have you make out some tests for me. Not only that but I would just like to have you here. You seem to make my heart beat faster, and I feel as though it should.

I have got to take Dad to Readstown to-night. I think I will mail this then if I don’t forget it.

Gee I wish I could come up some night this week, but I am afraid I can’t. I have got to go to bed more and redeem myself for things I have been doing. I can just imagine what your mother thinks of me.

Well I know what I think of you any way. I think you are the sweetest darn kid I have ever been with, and I was never so darn crazy over anyone in my life. But the question is just what do you think of me. I have thought a lot about it and have come to no definite conclusion.

I shall be expecting a letter from you; if I get it I will be surprised and if I don’t I shall be disappointed.

Write Soon

With Love

Eddie Heal

Love Letter

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Page 2 of Love Letter

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To read the first love letter click here!

Does Christmas Time Make You Feel Like Crying?

Does Christmas time make you feel like crying?

Iris & Cesar Dec. 2010

Iris & Cesar Dec. 2010

 

Iris Dec. 2006

Iris Dec. 2006

Or make you want to scream?

Iris and Bency Dec. 2007

Iris and Bency Dec. 2007

Does it make you grumpy?

Cesar Dec. 2010

Cesar Dec. 2010

Maybe just a bit overwhelmed?

Iris Dec. 2007

Iris Dec. 2007

Cesar Dec. 2010

Cesar Dec. 2010

 

Iris Dec. 2008

Iris Dec. 2008

Maybe, you’re just feeling a bit blah?

Cesar Dec. 2010

Cesar Dec. 2010

Well, come on dear fellow…

Cesar Dec. 2010

Cesar Dec. 2010

Take some time to think….

Bency Dec. 2007

Bency Dec. 2007

Iris Dec. 2007

Iris Dec. 2007

Sit back and relax a spell…

Cesar Dec. 2011

Cesar Dec. 2011

Anticipate the joy and surprise that Christmas brings…

Iris Dec. 2006

Iris Dec. 2006

Iris Dec. 2006

Iris Dec. 2006

Take time to act silly…

 

Bency & Iris Dec. 2008

Bency & Iris Dec. 2008

Find something that makes you smile…

Bency Dec. 2007

Bency Dec. 2007

Cesar Dec. 2010

Cesar Dec. 2010

 

Iris Dec. 2005

Iris Dec. 2005

And please folks, have yourself a merry little Christmas!

Iris Dec. 2008

Iris Dec. 2008

Thanksgiving Makes Us Happy, Mad and Sad

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and we are having our family and friends join us at our house for a feast.

Since I was busy this morning getting everything ready for tomorrow and the kids are off of school; I put them to work making things to decorate the house.

I decided upon a series of people cut out of paper bags for them to color and we could create a chain of them. I told the kids this symbolized the coming together as family and friends at Thanksgiving time.

Our Thanksgiving Family and Friends chain

I went in to check on them in between washing dishes and getting some cooking done.

My 5 year old, Bency was on his third person and said, “This person’s getting the mad face.”

I shrieked, “What??? No! You can’t have a mad person in the Thanksgiving chain! They must all be happy!”

Bency shrugged his shoulders and said, “Well, I’ve already made one happy and one sad. I need a mad one now.”

I paused for a moment and thought.

Bency really has Thanksgiving figured out. Thanksgiving brings out a whole range of emotions.

First, you’re happy when you see all of the food. Secondly, you’re sad when you realize how much you’ve just eaten and lastly you just get down right mad at yourself when you keep going back for more.

Bency said he needs me to make a few more people for him to color. He forgot to make a “surprised person.”

Yes, Thanksgiving brings out the surprise in all of us when we just can’t seem to button those pants the next day!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!

Melissa

The mad, the sad and the happy of Thanksgiving!