He asked if he could read another story.
It was huge to me. It was a mind blowing, earth shattering, birds chirping around the world kind of statement.
My 5 year old son, Bency is in Kindergarten and is learning to read.
Unlike his older sister, who emerged from the womb and began her love of books and desire to learn to read Bency was indifferent about books.
He likes when I read him stories but he rarely picks up books during the day and tries to read them by himself. My daughter, by 2 years old had memorized the majority of her books and could fool anyone that she was a reader. She read from sunup until sundown and still does.
In Kindergarten they began by teaching the kids the easy words such as the, it, is, can, see, etc. Bency does have these memorized and so now they are moving on to simple books that contain these words.
Last week I brought out an old Dick and Jane book and told Bency I was going to have him read it for me. He made a noise indicating that this would be painful and threw his hands up to his head. I kind of tilted my head and gave him a look and he said, “Fine, but you know I can’t read yet.”
Lo and behold, Bency CAN read. He actually did quite well and only stumbled over a few words. The words he didn’t know he would only look at for a second and then throw his body back and whine, “I don’t know that word. I can’t read.”
He is seriously dramatic and stubborn.
I kept pushing on night after night. I was patient and amazed watching him get better and better.
Night after night Bency grumbled, moaned and threw his hands to his head like my suggestion for him to read Dick and Jane with me was on par with getting seared with a hot branding iron.
Last night something happened though. We got through the same two chapters we have been rereading for the past couple of days and I began to close the book.
Bency said, “Hey, wait…I want to read the next chapter. I think I know how to read now.”
A half hour earlier when I told Bency that it was time for us to go up and read he said, “Do I have to?” and proceeded to do a rolling flip off of the chair that I can only assume indicated that he would rather knock himself unconscious or end up in the hospital then have to go read what Dick and Jane were up to.
I’m hoping the future holds the constant request for one more story!